THE PRINCESS CIRCLE - When Love Becomes Performance

 


The Illusion of Effort: A Story of Expectations and Loss

Story: S A Spencer

Author of Popular FictionsThe Pink MutinyThe Black WatersDream In Shackles

I. The Glow

Nina’s phone lit up with messages before she’d even finished her morning chai.

“Girls, look what Aarav did today 😍” “Breakfast in bed again!” “Spa voucher from my man — I’m screaming.”

The group chat — The Queens — was a constant stream of curated perfection. Filtered photos. Staged surprises. Exaggerated stories.

Nina scrolled through them with a tightness in her chest she didn’t want to name.

Her boyfriend, Joseph, was steady, gentle, and practical. But he wasn’t… this.

That night, as she lay in bed, the glow of her phone reflecting in her eyes, she felt something shift inside her — small, sharp, and persistent.

The next morning, she looked at Joseph differently.

II. The Shift

It began with a question.

“Why don’t you ever surprise me?”

Joseph blinked, confused. “Surprise you how?”

“You know… like other boyfriends do.”

He didn’t understand what she meant, but he understood the fear behind her tone — the fear of being left behind, of not being enough.

So he tried.

He brought her flowers. He cooked dinner. He wrote her notes in awkward handwriting. He took photos of her even though he hated cameras.

Nina posted everything.

Her friends flooded the chat with heart emojis. “OMG Nina, he’s perfect!” “You manifested this!”

The validation was addictive.

One evening, she snapped a photo of Joseph washing dishes and posted it with the caption:

“Find yourself a man who treats you like a queen.”

The likes poured in.

Joseph didn’t say anything. But he dried his hands slower than usual.

III. The Strain

They married the following year.

The wedding photos were flawless — colour‑coordinated, edited, and curated for maximum impact. Nina’s friends declared her the luckiest among them.

Joseph kept up the effort.

He woke early to make her breakfast. He handled all the chores. He complimented her every morning. He managed the bills, the errands, the invisible labour.

Nina expected it now. It wasn’t special anymore — it was normal.

If he forgot something — even something tiny — she reacted sharply.

“You don’t care about me.” “You’ve changed.” “You used to try harder.”

Joseph apologised every time.

But something inside him was thinning, like fabric worn down by too many washes.

One evening, after a long day, he forgot to compliment her new dress. Nina’s face tightened.

“You didn’t even notice.”

Joseph opened his mouth to respond — then closed it again.

IV. The Silence

Their home became a stage.

Nina curated every moment for social media. Joseph played the role she needed him to play.

But behind the scenes, resentment grew quietly.

He felt invisible unless he was performing. She felt unloved unless he was performing.

Her friends continued posting their perfect lives — but slowly, Nina began noticing the cracks.

One friend stopped posting entirely. Another quietly deleted all couple photos. A third admitted she’d exaggerated everything.

But Nina didn’t slow down. She pushed harder.

One night, after a tense argument, Joseph sat on the edge of the bed, staring at the floor.

“I don’t know who I am anymore,” he said softly.

Nina felt a flicker of fear — but she swallowed it.

“You’re my husband,” she said. “You’re supposed to make me feel special.”

He looked up at her, eyes tired in a way she’d never seen.

“And who makes me feel special, Nina?”

The question hung in the air, heavy and unanswered.

V. The Fourth Anniversary

Nina had planned an elaborate anniversary setup — fairy lights, candles, matching outfits. She expected Joseph to match her enthusiasm.

But he came home late, drained from a brutal day at work. He apologised, but it wasn’t enough.

“You ruined everything,” she snapped. “You don’t care about this marriage.” “You don’t care about me.”

Joseph stood still, letting the words settle.

Then, in a voice that was almost too calm, he said:

“I can’t do this anymore.”

Nina froze. “Do what?”

“This performance. This version of love. I’m tired, Nina.”

She opened her mouth to argue — but the emptiness in his eyes stopped her.

He packed a small bag. No shouting. No drama. Just a quiet exit from a life that had drained him dry.

Nina watched him leave, her breath caught somewhere between anger and grief.

VI. Afterwards

The marriage ended a few months later.

Her friends’ relationships also began to unravel — one by one, the truth surfaced. The princess treatment had been curated, exaggerated, or entirely fabricated.

Nina stopped posting for a while. She stopped comparing. She stopped demanding.

She started thinking.

She realised she had built her marriage on borrowed fantasies — expectations shaped by filtered photos and half‑truths.

Joseph wasn’t perfect. But he had loved her sincerely. And she had turned that love into labour.

One evening, she stood by her window, watching the city lights flicker across Vadodara’s skyline. She felt a quiet ache — not for the marriage, but for the version of herself who believed love needed to be performed to be real.

She didn’t rush into a new relationship. She didn’t chase grand gestures.

She learned to sit with herself. To appreciate small, genuine moments. To understand that love is partnership, not performance.

Some relationships don’t fail because of lack of love. They fail because love becomes a show.

And Nina finally understood that she didn’t need to be treated like a queen. She just needed to be treated like a person.


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AUTHOR’S NOTE 

This story explores how social comparison can distort our understanding of love. In a world where relationships are curated for likes and validation, it’s easy to forget that real partnership is built on honesty, not performance. If this story resonates with you, I hope it encourages you to look beyond the filters — and value the quiet, genuine moments that never make it to social media.

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